I mentioned Saibal in my January 2025 post titled Kanha, Paradise. I am proud to call Saibal my friend. That is not an expression I use lightly.
When he first came to see me, more than two decades ago (I am ashamed I cannot remember the exact year), he came as the representative of a multinational bank, on a business tour aimed at finding new customers upcountry. He was introduced by his junior, Sayan, who was a good friend of a then-beloved ex student, and had grown close to me. I was attracted by Saibal's manner of starting the conversation - so warm, so amiable, yet so professional. I was listening so closely to him, and he was behaving so much like a regular person, that it took me some time to notice that his right hand was missing. No one discussed or even mentioned the fact, and of course I am too reserved a person to put such questions to an almost-stranger.
Gradually our friendship deepened. There came a time when he came over again, to announce that he had quit his bank job and started up an investment company of his own, specializing in mutual funds (this was a time when MFs had just begun to catch the public attention), and I became, I think, one of his early clients. I remember him asking me 'Suvroda, do you want to get rich quick?' I was a little taken aback, then said smilingly that I had no such dream. He said, 'Good, then you will be the kind of customer I am looking for. If you can invest slowly but regularly, I promise to give you a good nest egg to retire comfortably on in two decades' time, give or take a few years'. And he seems to have kept his promise. Besides my own sustained hard work and saving habit, it is thanks to Saibal alone, outside my family that is, that I am today as safe financially as any middle class man in India can be.
His company has grown apace, just as have my savings. Last I checked, they have 7000 plus clients and are managing assets close to a thousand crore rupees (may that grow to 5000 in my lifetime!). Two decades are a long time, and lots of things, good and bad, happen to everybody within that kind of time span. I have been no exception. I have needed substantial sums of money urgently at least three times, and I have got literally perfect within-the-day service every time. Saibal's good friend and colleague Samrat has become the kind of 'relationship manager' that you can usually only dream of in this day and age. I only wonder how they can instantly and so satisfactorily respond to a relatively small-time client like me day in, day out, for years and years without fail. Talk about responsibility, efficiency and commitment...
Over the years, I got to know more and more about Saibal, in little bits and pieces at a time, and the more I learnt, the stronger my admiration for him became. He had had a decent urban educated middle class upbringing, albeit with the usual difficulties and disappointments. Then disaster struck. Shortly after he had settled down in that bank job and started courting a colleague, there was a freak road accident while he was travelling with some friends to a picnic spot in a bus, and his right hand was nearly severed. It was a miracle that he survived the journey back to a hospital in the city. The hand was amputated.
There followed trauma, shock, deep, prolonged depression and disorientation. Then there came climbing back the long road to recovery and reconstruction of life. As he himself says, he had to re-learn everything from scratch, everything from how to write with his left hand to tying his shoelaces with a single hand. He freely acknowledges that for all his zest for life, his strength of mind, his fixity of purpose, that rehabilitation would have been very difficult if not impossible without the steadfast, patient, uncomplaining, deeply empathetic support of his gem of a wife (my pronaam, Kulbeer ma'am) and a few true friends and supportive, enthusiastic colleagues. Then came the worst part of the story: his job turned sour, not only because of the demands of profit-hungry, customer-indifferent bosses but because too many decision makers were hesitant about entrusting a 'handicapped' man with the kind of bigger responsibilities that he craved and knew he could handle. So, approaching his mid-thirties, he crossed the second giant challenge of his life: to quit his salaried job and plunge into the maelstrom of the business world. His team worked long and hard, intelligently and determinedly. The rest is history.
Now at long last Saibal has told his own story in a little book titled Hand of God: one hand, infinite dreams. For anyone teenaged or older, it is truly inspirational without the slightest exaggeration. As Saibal says (read the book), he has now made all the money he really needed, his son is doing very well and is the pride and joy of his life, he knows peace and rest. And yet, he is still crazy about wildlife and travelling and football, and is still running his business hands-on, though for him now money making is most firmly secondary to the satisfaction that comes from knowing that he has earned the trust of so many customers, and he is, as we speak, being of enormous help to many of them in their hour of need, whether they need money or sympathy or expert advice. He also has some ambition to join politics, because he believes we need activists in the ring, so to speak, who want to work hard in order to make life in India much more congenial for people with disabilities than he has found it to be for most of his working life. I wish him Godspeed, and though my remaining aims in life are far more private and humble, so that I could never be someone like him, I have no hesitation is declaring that he ranks very high among my living heroes. Thank you for having become so much more than my money manager, Saibal.
P.S.: Saibal also speaks on TV (I last heard him on CNBC) and writes financial advisory columns for newspapers like ABP. He has always been telling me 'Dada, it is not how much you invest but how long and how regularly you do so that matters more, so tell your grown up students to start young; put them in touch with me'. You can contact him at his company website.
4 comments:
Thank you Suvroda for sharing Saibal's story. Their stories confirm the belief that old school “sincerity” still triumphs. Good wishes to him and his family.
When I write about someone who really deserves admiration, respect and awe, I find virtually no comments. Sad reflection on both the world today as well as my readership. My disappointment with and contempt for my species grows stronger by the year.
Thank you Sir for sharing this deeply moving and beautifully written reflection on Saibal da. Reading it, one is struck not only by the extraordinary arc of his life but also by the quiet integrity with which he has lived it.
Whether it is one’s physical faculty that gives strength, or the loss of it that forges strength of a different order, Saibal da’s journey reminds us that true ability comes from within. The word profession, after all, comes from profess—to openly practice what one believes in. In that sense, Saibal da’s evolution is not merely a professional success story but a lived philosophy. His life itself has become his profession: a daily practice of belief, resilience, discipline, and empathy.
What stands out most is that his story does not require grand theories or borrowed inspiration. His own life is sufficient proof of the immense potential embedded in every God-given existence. The accident may have taken a hand, but it revealed something far greater—the courage to begin again. And as his story so powerfully shows, it is that first step, taken despite fear and uncertainty, that changes everything.
Equally inspiring is how seamlessly he has balanced personal and professional life: drawing strength from family, giving credit where it is due, and yet never retreating from responsibility or ambition. His success reassures us that one need not sacrifice humanity, relationships, or values in order to build something enduring.
Saibal da’s life is a reminder to all of us—and especially to younger minds—that consistency, belief, and ethical practice matter more than speed or spectacle. Thank you for bringing such a role model into focus. Stories like this do not merely inspire; they steady us.
When you next meet or speak with Saibal da, please convey my deepest admiration and respect to him.
With warm regards and deep respect,
Bibhas Mondal
Sorry for the delay in replying to your post, and thank you so much for introducing us to such a remarkable person. I remember how you have brought so many wonderful personalities to light over the years, starting with Shilpi di and Projesh da, the latter whom you mentioned is a computer genius — truly a testament to your impeccable taste in people. I sincerely hope Saibal continues to change the lives of hundreds, if not thousands, of people. Although I haven’t managed to keep in touch with any of them and am not quite sure how I might personally benefit from someone living in a completely different country, I wish him all the very best and hope our paths might cross someday. It is heartwarming to hear of sincere people in today's world.
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